Abhishek Maurya

Abhishek Maurya

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Am I committed...???

From last three and a half years, i only noticed one thing in my environment or i can say that in my teenager age, that everybody is running behind the relationship or mostly everybody want to be committed. some of my friend are really serious about their relationship and they are planning that how to settle their family virtues about the caste, how to handle their religious sentiments about their different culture and their religious wisdoms, and some are planning how to run away  from parents because they know one thing that their parents don't agree what they  want, and mostly are planning to get a breakup because they think that the four year time in a relationship is more than sufficient and both want to move their life with a new and dashing partner....
                                    These are the stories of my friend but what about me, I am still a single person and and my slogan is that READY TO MINGLE. But it is also not a fact that i don't love someone, but i am consistent with my love and one thing be noted that my love is increasing daily for someone, but i have also a fact that i am not a committed person. But in these relationship, we are forgetting some thing which are the most important things in our life, that WHAT IS COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP??
                                When we are just the sperms and we are planning to mingle with the egg, then someone wishes and someone prayers give the strengths to fight and compete in the race with millions of same donor. And by the wishes and prayers of someone, we win the race and we got the birth in this beautiful world, and from that the first day of birth, we are committed to those prayers and wishes on not anyone else, that is the most important lady in our life that is our Mom. She is the ultimate lady and a committed lady to us from our childhood.
                             This is India, the most awesome country for Cricket, and from out birth we don't know about ABC or counting but we know about the Bat and Ball, and it is only given by the most responsible person in our life or we can say that the donor of our living that is Father, We start out cricket practice with him, we start to took money from him, we start to fight with him, we mostly talk for our girlfriends with him( in my case, because they mostly ask me if you planned to marry with a girl of your liking then told me, i ask to their parents). And they provided anything that we want in our life, and from the age of birth and since the age of dying, we are committed with him.
                                                 Then , the most idiots and stupids but the most beautiful and most loving persons came to our life they are in the form of brother and sisters. We fought with them and we played with them, we laughed with them, we shared our feeling with them and in the meanwhile we passed out life with them and we are committed with them also in a beautiful manner that it is only understood by only a sister or a brother.
                  Then we see this world, but we are covered with the lakhs of assholes, but some are made for you, and they are called in this world, Friends, I don't know the definition of Friends, meanwhile they are the mixtures of above three relationship, we can share our grief with them, some of my friends mostly share their girlfriends with them because when someone left the other then other picks the other, and this is interesting, somehow we can say that this is the relationship of Ted Mosby and Branney Stinson in the serial How I Met Your Mother, seriously this friendship relationship is a Legen...wait fot it,.Dary...in meanwhile we are committed with these relationship also..
                             In this life, there are many circumstances, we faced a lot. But the most important thing is that how we face them. We are always wandering about a committed relationship with a girl but in this journey that we are committed with the most important persons in our life that is called family and friendship. And today i have to say that i am committed with the most important person in my life that is my family and my friend, Love you Mom and Dad, and last but the perfect ones,,Love you my friends and you all are the most loving person in my life and i remember you all till my last breath, and the most important thing,
don't be serious friends,,you know me,,
don't show me tears, you know me,,    
don't flirt with me, you know me,,
don't show your back,i give you a kick,,you know me,
don't show your laughs, i will laugh,,you know me,,
don't hide any fact, i will slap you,,you know me...
i know one thing that you know me more than me...Love you guyz...
      

Thursday, February 23, 2012

ये बहने...

ये बहने इतना दूर क्यों जाती है,,,
और जब जाती है,,तो बहुत याद आती है,,

बचपन से इनके खेल में खेलने के लिए,,
माँ से जिद्द करना पड़ता था,,,
और कभी-कभी इन सब से झगरा भी करना पड़ता था,,
गुट्टे के एक बार आउट होने से बहनों के वजह से,,
दोबारा चानिस भी मिल जाया करता था,,

बहार वालों से बचने के लिए,,
सिर्फ यही आया करती थी,,
कोई शैतानी में माँ-पिताजी से भी बचने,,
ये हमारे सामने भी आया करती थी,,

स्कूल की ड्राईंग को ,,
सिर्फ इनसे बनवाना पड़ता था,,
ज्यादा काम मिलने पद अपना सारा काम,,
इनके भरोसे छोड़ जाना पड़ता था,,

माँ के किसी और के घर जाने पर,,
माँ की छवि बन जाया करती थी,
ये बहने हमारे लिए क्या-क्या,,
कर जाया करती थी...

बचपन में लड़ाई में चाकू-कुर्सी निकल लिया करते थे,,
और आज वही चाकू से साबजी काट के हमको खाना खिलाया करती है,,
आज माँ से इतना दूर होते हुए भी,,माँ का साया भी दिया करती है,,
ये बहने क्यों इस दुनिया में एक अनोखा अपनापन देती है,,

दोस्त भी, माँ भी, पिता भी,,और क्या-क्या नहीं बन जाया करती है,,
एक बार, प्यार से, इज्जत से देखो,
तो शायद इश्वर की एक परछाई भी बन जाया करती है,,

आँख खुली तो, कुछ न पाया,,
ये बहने क्यों छोड़ जाया करती है,,
और जब जाती है,,तो बहुत यात आती है,,

बचपन से एक दोहराए पे खड़ा हो जाया करती है,,
अपने ससुराल जाने की रीत को,
बड़े प्यार से बचपन में ही मान जाया करती है,,

हम इनको पराया धन कह के ,,
कभी-कभी चिडाया करते है,,
मगर ये तो शयद,,सारा अपना धन,,
हम पर लुटा के,,न कोई मोलभाव के,,
पराया बन जाया करती है,,

ये बहने इतना दूर क्यों चला जाया करती है,,
और जब जाती है तो बहुत याद आती है...