Abhishek Maurya

Abhishek Maurya

Monday, February 22, 2010

My First Valentine week!!!!!

Yah!!! A rose day!!!!. A nice start for a lovely valentine week.I don’t remember my last rose day. Last year a girl was my friend. Seriously I don’t know about the valentine week and about these days that chocolate day,hug day,kiss day,propose day,and many more. But she is the first one in my life that told me about this lovely week.
Last year when I meet to her,then we were only friends. Girls are my friends but limits for the class only. We are good friends. When the rose day,or I can say that rose night because she called me in the night and told me about the rose day. And told me all the days about the valentine week.
Always she was the first one who wish me the days of valentine,and I always promise that tomorrow I will be the first one who wish you,but always I forget. But she don’t forget. And as always she wished me. One day she asked me that do u have any girlfriends? I’m shocked why was she asking me this question? And as a truth I told her that I’ve no girlfriends. And in reply I asked the same question,and she has a same answer like me.
So she asked me in what ways do u celebrate it? And as a stupid,I said to her what a celebration!!!! And in comedy I laughed more and more and said to her I don’t believe in this foolish like things. But as a friend we were moving around. In every shoping of her,I’m always with her. In every work I’m always with her. She always asked me many advices. And also follows that advices. She asked me many small like things,and I always answered her.
She asked me to go out on a restaurant. And as always I told her yes. She gave me a chocolate. And as an idiot I asked why are u giving me chocolate ? She told me that today was a chocolate day. And asked me for order. I’ve no thought what was the best in that restaurant that Is why is told her you called me so you order. She ordered pav bhaji and told me about the pav bhaji was the best thing in that restaurant.
Now it’s the time of getting out from that restaurant. As we were coming from that,some beggars whose age was not more than ten years old,come around us and asked for begging. And told the comments that you have a life long, you have a great couple,and many comments which I can never forget in my life. I laughed on them and clear them that we are friends. But they were ….. but a small child came and said if you are not giving me money,then please buy this rose. I don’t understand what should I do? But I bought that rose and gave the money to that child,and delivers that rose to my friend.She was the first girl in my life whom I gave a red rose.
But now at this year,in this beautiful week,she is not with me. Last year she told me about the week and this year the condition is just opposite. I remembered all the days. Today no one in my life to give me a red rose,a chocolate,a teddy,and many things.
But as she is not at present in my life,though I remember her.
HAPPY ROSE DAY!!!!!!!!
All the days I remember with you,I don’t forget. All the moments I can share with you, I don’t forget. All the lies I told you,I don’t forget. All the laughs you are making with me,I don’t forget it yaar. The smile which is made you when I do some silly things, I don’t forget it yaar. I only want to say that I remember you always,I remember u always……..as you mine!!!!
HAPPY CHOCOLATE DAY!!!!!!!!!
HAPPY TEDDY DAY!!!!!!!!!
I’m not worthwhile to give you a chocolate,I’m not worthwhile to give you a chocolate,I’m only a person to make your life a happy life,I want to be your teddy that you play with that teddy
HAPPY PROMISE DAY!!!!!!!!!
I don’t make any promise to you. But I want to say that in the future we don’t make any fight. I don’t make any lie.
At last i only want to say I remember u ……a lot!!!!!!!!
And I want to ask a question that is this LOVE?????????
Do I love that girl who was my dearest friend. I don’t know what love is??? But I only want that she will be with me.
Do I love her or its my mistake?? Please suggest me that is this LOVE or something else or any more!!!!!
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Friday, February 5, 2010

Talking about love

Love,oh what a wonderful feeling!! or we can say that what a wonderful thing!!. In teenager life, Love is around us . It is flying in the air. Everyone wants to commit with a girl, or now a days some may be want to commit with the same sex. Now this is not my main purpose to show the today age. And their relationship may be termed as Love.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
Or we can say that the parents choose a girl or a boy for his boy or girl who don’t know each other. But they did marriage. In our custom it is termed as Arrange Marriage. They live happily always.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
Or we can say that a person loves his friend but don’t tell her and on the other side girl also loved him,but she also don’t want to tell him. It is because that they suppose that Love destroy their friendship relations. It is mostly in teenager age.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
I don’t know what love is? If we ask to many people that what their think then their either be from above clearification or their different choice. But from my view, Love is starting from three basic pre-requisites,that they are Liking,Lust and at last Love.
Liking is the basic need of any relationship,but if you love someone that it is not compulsory that you love him. You like your family members, your friends and many more. Love with family member, is a different thing. Love with mom dad, brother and sisters, is a special feeling in heart that is from our birth. And that love is pure love without lust. But I don’t consider that Love. I’m consider that love which is different in two people, whom that they don’t know. God gives us a family but to choose a lovemate or we can say that lifepartner, it is in our hand. It is our wish that who is the partner of us?
Liking is the basic thing but in todays age ,lust prevails more. Lust is the feeling to get someone, desireness to get someone. It is due to the physical beauty. I’ve considered that it is the part of love, but it is opposite to the love. If you have a lust for anyone that it is not a true love. Now a days love is only become a lust. Love is the combination of liking & lust in teenagers.
For my considerations, Love has many faces in the life. It changed from the age of teenager to age of old age.
In teenager age, love is due to attractions and due to physical beauty. But in olden age, love is termed between husband and wife and their wiilingness to do for each other. They faced many circumstances in their life, solve it. And remained with each other. They are shoulders for themselves. They have no time in their youngers life for showing their love. But their responsibility is over and they showed their love at this age. And really at this age Love is pure that combine their heart truly. And that love is pure love!!!
Many of us that love may be occurs at first sight. Yes, I considered that love may be possible at first sight, but it is not a long term relationships. Because it is totally due to the physical attaractions. And love starts with physical beauty decreases as beauty decreases.
Some of us say that friendship is the basic need of Love. Yes, I consider it also. But ultimately Love after friendship is not at its ultimate stage at which it may be. I only consider that ” Love relationship is that a love in a single soul dwelling in two bodies ”. This thought is very different but when between friendships love exist, then it destroys the friendship also. And with ending with someone,no relationship can be flourishes. If friendship termed to the love ,then couple should have a promise that they first are friends and then they are in love. If you starts with friendship then friendship is more important than love……
But what the love actually is? ? ?????
Before starting the love relationship, you should have the trust. Or we can say that, “ If you trust someone, trust till the end, whatever the result may be. In the end either you will have a good lesson or a good lovemate ”.
In my thoughts, Love is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship, it does not matter how much we love in the beginning but it matters that how much we love till end.