Love,oh what a wonderful feeling!! or we can say that what a wonderful thing!!. In teenager life, Love is around us . It is flying in the air. Everyone wants to commit with a girl, or now a days some may be want to commit with the same sex. Now this is not my main purpose to show the today age. And their relationship may be termed as Love.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
Or we can say that the parents choose a girl or a boy for his boy or girl who don’t know each other. But they did marriage. In our custom it is termed as Arrange Marriage. They live happily always.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
Or we can say that a person loves his friend but don’t tell her and on the other side girl also loved him,but she also don’t want to tell him. It is because that they suppose that Love destroy their friendship relations. It is mostly in teenager age.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
I don’t know what love is? If we ask to many people that what their think then their either be from above clearification or their different choice. But from my view, Love is starting from three basic pre-requisites,that they are Liking,Lust and at last Love.
Liking is the basic need of any relationship,but if you love someone that it is not compulsory that you love him. You like your family members, your friends and many more. Love with family member, is a different thing. Love with mom dad, brother and sisters, is a special feeling in heart that is from our birth. And that love is pure love without lust. But I don’t consider that Love. I’m consider that love which is different in two people, whom that they don’t know. God gives us a family but to choose a lovemate or we can say that lifepartner, it is in our hand. It is our wish that who is the partner of us?
Liking is the basic thing but in todays age ,lust prevails more. Lust is the feeling to get someone, desireness to get someone. It is due to the physical beauty. I’ve considered that it is the part of love, but it is opposite to the love. If you have a lust for anyone that it is not a true love. Now a days love is only become a lust. Love is the combination of liking & lust in teenagers.
For my considerations, Love has many faces in the life. It changed from the age of teenager to age of old age.
In teenager age, love is due to attractions and due to physical beauty. But in olden age, love is termed between husband and wife and their wiilingness to do for each other. They faced many circumstances in their life, solve it. And remained with each other. They are shoulders for themselves. They have no time in their youngers life for showing their love. But their responsibility is over and they showed their love at this age. And really at this age Love is pure that combine their heart truly. And that love is pure love!!!
Many of us that love may be occurs at first sight. Yes, I considered that love may be possible at first sight, but it is not a long term relationships. Because it is totally due to the physical attaractions. And love starts with physical beauty decreases as beauty decreases.
Some of us say that friendship is the basic need of Love. Yes, I consider it also. But ultimately Love after friendship is not at its ultimate stage at which it may be. I only consider that ” Love relationship is that a love in a single soul dwelling in two bodies ”. This thought is very different but when between friendships love exist, then it destroys the friendship also. And with ending with someone,no relationship can be flourishes. If friendship termed to the love ,then couple should have a promise that they first are friends and then they are in love. If you starts with friendship then friendship is more important than love……
But what the love actually is? ? ?????
Before starting the love relationship, you should have the trust. Or we can say that, “ If you trust someone, trust till the end, whatever the result may be. In the end either you will have a good lesson or a good lovemate ”.
In my thoughts, Love is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship, it does not matter how much we love in the beginning but it matters that how much we love till end.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
Or we can say that the parents choose a girl or a boy for his boy or girl who don’t know each other. But they did marriage. In our custom it is termed as Arrange Marriage. They live happily always.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
Or we can say that a person loves his friend but don’t tell her and on the other side girl also loved him,but she also don’t want to tell him. It is because that they suppose that Love destroy their friendship relations. It is mostly in teenager age.
IS IT LOVE ? ? ??????
I don’t know what love is? If we ask to many people that what their think then their either be from above clearification or their different choice. But from my view, Love is starting from three basic pre-requisites,that they are Liking,Lust and at last Love.
Liking is the basic need of any relationship,but if you love someone that it is not compulsory that you love him. You like your family members, your friends and many more. Love with family member, is a different thing. Love with mom dad, brother and sisters, is a special feeling in heart that is from our birth. And that love is pure love without lust. But I don’t consider that Love. I’m consider that love which is different in two people, whom that they don’t know. God gives us a family but to choose a lovemate or we can say that lifepartner, it is in our hand. It is our wish that who is the partner of us?
Liking is the basic thing but in todays age ,lust prevails more. Lust is the feeling to get someone, desireness to get someone. It is due to the physical beauty. I’ve considered that it is the part of love, but it is opposite to the love. If you have a lust for anyone that it is not a true love. Now a days love is only become a lust. Love is the combination of liking & lust in teenagers.
For my considerations, Love has many faces in the life. It changed from the age of teenager to age of old age.
In teenager age, love is due to attractions and due to physical beauty. But in olden age, love is termed between husband and wife and their wiilingness to do for each other. They faced many circumstances in their life, solve it. And remained with each other. They are shoulders for themselves. They have no time in their youngers life for showing their love. But their responsibility is over and they showed their love at this age. And really at this age Love is pure that combine their heart truly. And that love is pure love!!!
Many of us that love may be occurs at first sight. Yes, I considered that love may be possible at first sight, but it is not a long term relationships. Because it is totally due to the physical attaractions. And love starts with physical beauty decreases as beauty decreases.
Some of us say that friendship is the basic need of Love. Yes, I consider it also. But ultimately Love after friendship is not at its ultimate stage at which it may be. I only consider that ” Love relationship is that a love in a single soul dwelling in two bodies ”. This thought is very different but when between friendships love exist, then it destroys the friendship also. And with ending with someone,no relationship can be flourishes. If friendship termed to the love ,then couple should have a promise that they first are friends and then they are in love. If you starts with friendship then friendship is more important than love……
But what the love actually is? ? ?????
Before starting the love relationship, you should have the trust. Or we can say that, “ If you trust someone, trust till the end, whatever the result may be. In the end either you will have a good lesson or a good lovemate ”.
In my thoughts, Love is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship, it does not matter how much we love in the beginning but it matters that how much we love till end.
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